hi..my name on gothicmatch was stylba......i had been on for about 3
months still relatively new and exploring the site.....my cousin photo
touch some of my older pics so i could have a good pic on the site.....and
that is when i discovered the chat area of the site one day when i was
checking my winks I meet an extremly interesting guy on the site. And we
hit it off so well i gave him my number and told him to call me....not a
risk i usually take but something just seemed to say go for it ....so i
did. we talked that night and regularly through out the next yr. then 4 no
reason i don't hear from him for like 3 months i think i said or did
something wrong...because that is just my luck....
well one day in march Mikey calls me and tells me about all the stuff that
had been going on we both laugh about it and start talking again and he
even says he might make a trip from PA. to see me here in MD. well we get
to talking for that entire month and then in April i have a friend spend
the week with me and we decide...... after so much sugar and caffeine u
could kill a horse..... to call him.
well he also had a friend over his best friend.....so after about fifteen
mins of speed talking he puts Steve on the phone. We, me and my
friend....Sami, try for about 2hrs to convince them 2come down so we can
meet they say not tonight and so we call them or rather Sami starts
texting then we call them the next morning.we can't convince Mikey but
since Steve was coming back to MD any way he says he'll stop by. Sami had
met up with one of my other friends while we were waiting for Steve to
get here so she wasn't here when he arrived.
I was a little anxious to met him knowing that he would probably be able
to tell me a lot about Mikey and knowing that he would tell Mikey a lot
about me from this meeting. that is until i met him.........
once I saw him.... and started talking to Steve not even five minutes of
being in the same room it was like being with one of my oldest
friends....i am a little ashamed to say that i forgot about Mikey
completely in those five minutes
but ever since that night me and Steve have been seeing each other and he
has even moved in with me and we are expecting a baby boy in January
so I guess that is my success story....there aren't any hard feelings on
Mikey's side we went up to PA to visit and i got to meet him finally this
thanksgiving besides the random jokes we all got along really well.
When I first met Irnwlf7 there was an instant bond between us. I knew this time would be special. We were inseparable from day one and have been together ever since. I have met and dated guys on GothicMatch but nothing like this. There was a connection like no other. I moved in with him this past February and this Halloween we got engaged! On behalf of Irnwlf7 and I we want to thank you GothicMatch!
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I really enjoyed being on this site, it's certainly a home away from home for me...I have been fortunate enough to have met somebody through it, and would like to give this budding relationship, an opportunity to grow and possibly become something more.
If nothing more of us becomes, then I will certainly return, ready to wallow within the blood-lust of more souls...;)
Again, many thanks...and many blessings to you all!
Keep up the brilliant work guys, you are amazing!
Hello I would like to say, I meet my girl Sarah thanks to your site, I am from New Zealand & I decided to go see this amazing person in the USA NY so I saved up my money & went over there, we are now married, Im am now back in New zealand getting money & organizing stuff to go to the USA to be with Sarah to live, your site has changed my life, "thank you", we are prefect for eachother & will be together forever, we have been together for around A year now & we have been marryed for 3 months & all is going well. Best wisher, ~Brenton~
keith and i met here on gothicmatch. i was on the chat room and he messaged me. we fell for each other instantly. over some time we have gotten very close. him and his family have offered me to come live in scotland. i have begun the nesessary moves to getting U.K. Citizenship. he has asked for my hand in marriage and we will be married in March 2008. this has been a fairy tale come true, and if it weren't for this site, i don't believe we would have met. thank you so very much!!!! don't ever let this site go down!
I first started out here on gothicmatch in 2005. I looked everywhere for my one and only. Finally July 27th, of 2007 i met this wonderful guy, Velvet_revolver, at first i was kinda Eeck about it, But then we started talking more, He finally asked me to marry him July 31st, of 2007, Ive never fell in love with some one so quick. Thanks to gothicmatch i now have found my one, and i couldnt be more happier :).
Stephen and I met here on June 24, 2006. He emailed me one day and I thought WOW he seems to be a great person, from his profile and personality and we both loved the same rock band! We chatted online a couple times before we met for the first time face to face. We both hadn't dated or be in a long relationship in years, so it was a little rusty at first. So after the first date we Clicked!! We continued to see each other. Today, a year later we are still growing closer to each other and finding more about each other and we are so in love with each other. We both feel we were meant to find each other on this website, to be together, it was fate!! We have talked about the future together like Moving in together and getting married and children one day too.
Thank you so much Gothic Match, I found my soul mate and the love of my life here.
When i met him i just knew he was the one, banging heart, dry mouth insane need to be around him. We are now engaged to be married and i am the happiest person with a dark macabre heart. Our love of horror entwined us forever.Thanks gothic match you bought two people with a sick sense of humour together. We are looking forward to a great life together and lots of fun. Big Thanks.
Hey guys, I just wanted to say thanks for running such an awesome site.....you guys have helped me find THE one for me!!!! again....thank you....to the wonderful people that I have met on here you will ALL be invited to the wedding :)
It was mid-December and he sent me a message, he remembered me.
We knew of each other in high school then years later he found me here.
And now three years later we are having our Hand-fasting and we have a blessed gift from the gods and her name is Morrigan (she is now almost a year old).
We are at last at peace for we now know why we are here... for each other.
I took a chance and messaged Gothicm76 and we really hit it off. We had quite a distance between us but we've made it work. We talked for about a month before we finally met up, agreed to be friends for a while, then started dating in March 2006. We're still together to this day with plans on building a more permanent future together. TY GM!
My husband has known me since my birth. He held me in his arms when he was 4 yrs and 6 mo. old. our parents betroved us ( which in a tradtion is my culture).27yrs. later thanks to gothicmatch we found each other on here. We met fianlly in my hometown with my family and then met his family and the betroval was sealed. I have never loved someone as much as i love my husband. He and my kids are my world. and i thank you gothic match from the bottom of my heart for helping us find each other. We had a Dec 31 wedding.
I joined Gothic match just trying to find some one that would like me for me. I talked to a bunch of people, Liked a few, but then i searched for people in dayton and i found Ghostofoden. From what i read in his profile he seamed perfect. So i e-mailed him. It was very dificult to get ahold of him for awile, but finally he went to my school and gave me his number. I was over joyed. A week after we started hanging out, he asked me out. I was speachless at first. But then i told him yes. after 4 months of dating he finally told me that he loves me. we have been together for almost 6 months now. And i love him more then any thing in the world.
I sat down and hit the on button on my hard drive, the computer whirred and i signed online not expecting to find anyone to talk to, as usual.
I clicked into a chatroom and scanned the various different screen names.
Then i found one that interested me, i clicked up a conversation box and typed "hello", as i waited for a reply i continued looking into the chatroom, then the sound of an answer ringed through my speakers.
"Hi, asl?" came up in the conversation box, so i typed up "17/f/uk, u?" and the reply came back "20/m/uk, how are you?"
A smile spread across my face as i chatted to this mysterious guy into the night. As 12am came and went i typed up "i have to go to bed now, maybe we can chat again sometime?" and happily i read as the guy replied "yes of course, speak again soon xx"
I turned off my computer and went to bed.
The next day i went to school constantly thinking about the guy i had spoken to the night before.
I came home from school and signed onto the internet again, then i realised i hadn't saved his screen name into my buddies, i was about to sign offline when i heard the message noise ring through my speakers again.
"Hello again" appeared in the conversation box, i grinned as i recognised the screen name and quickly typed up a reply "hello again, how are you?".
Another long night of chatting came ahead for me. This time we exchanged screen names on another internet chat program, and continued to chat on there.
A week passed as we chatted every night, and i plucked the courage to ask for him to send me a picture. "Picture sent" appeared in the conversation box, so i checked my email and saw to my delight there was an email from the guy in there. I opened the email and the picture appeared, my heart skipped a beat. This guy was gorgeous! He had dark brown hair, a small goatee and the most gorgeous blue eyes i had ever seen. Then into my world of admiration i heard the message noise, "can you send me a pic of u please?", I nervously picked the best picture i could find, one of me with all my dark make-up on and with my hair down. "Email sent" appeared on the screen, and i waited nervously for a reply.
About five minutes passed and then the noise rang through my speakers, "wow!" appeared in the conversation box. I blushed.
We chatted late into the night, and as i logged off i went to sleep with the image of that guy in my head. I found out that night that his name was Tim.
A month after we had started chatting i began to have strong feelings for Tim, i felt really silly as i knew he would never think me anything more than a friend, so i decided not to say anything.
That night as we chatted i asked Tim if he was involved with anyone, and to my sadness he said yes. I began to sob as i saw any chance of happiness with Tim fade into darkness.
As Two years passed i spoke to Tim, never revealing my feelings for him. I saw him date a number of girls, always feeling envious that it wasn't me. I too dated guys, but those relationships ended in my heart break.
Then one day as we chatted he sent me a voice clip over MSN, "i love you lauren" came over the speakers, and i jumped back in suprise. Tim saw my face over the webcam and asked "whats wrong?", i stayed silent as i tried to let what i had heard sink in. All those feelings for him that i had buried came back in a flurrying storm. I was still silent as i tried to think of a reply.
Then i typed up, "i'm speechless, i don't know what to say". Tims face grew a large smile as i watched him over the webcam.
Later that night he asked me to be his girlfriend, i told him i would think about it, logged off and went to bed.
A few days later, i sent Tim a message saying " you know that question you asked me the other night?, well my answer is yes". That same afternoon my phone rang, it was Tim, asking me to get online. I logged on and instantly Tim popped up, "So you know that message you sent me, what does it mean?" i answered "well, it means i am answering yes to the question you asked me".
I felt so happy to finally be with the guy i had wanted for so long.
After a few weeks we arranged to meet up, he would come and stay with me at my house.
As i waited for his bus to arrive my stomach filled with butterflies. After about half an hour his bus arrived and i saw his smiling face looking out the bus window.
He got off the bus and i nervously gave him a hug.
We walked back to my house and went upstairs to watch a video. Later that night we were about to go to sleep when Tim said to me "There is one thing i want to do before i go to sleep", i answered "Whats that?", "I want to kiss you" Tim answered, i fell silent as he leant in and we shared our first kiss. A big smile appered on both our faces, and our lips locked again, we kissed for what seemed like hours. Then we went to sleep.
The next night we made love for the first time, and all i can say is that it was the best night of my life.
We became inseperable.
The next visit we planned was for me to go to newcastle.
The moment came when i had to get on my coach and endure an eight hour long journey to newcastle.
When i arrived it was freezing cold. Tim came jogging round the corner with his friend Paul. We caught a taxi back to Tims. Through my visit i met a number of Tims friends, Byron, Alisha, Paul, and lots of others, too many to mention.
The time came when i had to leave, and as my bus pulled out of the station i cried.
Two more visits followed that one, and each time me and Tim became more and more in love.
Then something wonderful occured on his most recent visit.
I was sitting in my room watching television when my brother James called me downstairs. I sat in the kitchen drinking water, and i had a sneaking suspicion as to what was happening. A few weeks earlier me and Tim had discussed marriage, so i guessed he might be planning to propose, and i was right!
He entered the dining room in a gorgeous suit, with a cheeky grin on his face. I faced him and he got down on one knee.
"Lauren, will you marry me?", i giggled and said yes. And true to Tims cheeky nature he had gotten my brother to film the whole thing on his phone.
We have now been together 8 months and i couldn't be happier. I never thought i would get the chance to be with the guy i yearned for most, and now i am engaged to him!
I guess fairy tales do come true after all (o.o) xxxx
Thank you Gothicmatch!! I have found my Dark Prince or shall I say, he has found me?!! On Feb 9, 2007 I received a wink from this wonderful man and I responded. Since then we have had an incredibly passionate mad torn love affair via the internet from the USA to The Netherlands. Yesterday, my Dark Prince said he was madly in love with me and that I was his Lady!! Even though it has only been a few short weeks, we have found out that we have so much in common gothic and otherwise!! The Perfect Match!! He said I was everything he wanted in a Gothic Lady! He told me yesterday that he has already fallen in love with me and I was definitely his Lady. That big blue ocean, the thousands of miles and our jobs keep us apart right now, but not for long. My Dark Prince will be flying over in July to take his Lady to "The Masquerade Ball" in Hollywood!! He asked that I write to you and shout out loud and let the Gothic World know, WE ARE IN LOVE!!
When i first got that wink off Shaz i didn't really take it too seriously as i had been hurt before and was wary. The moment we started chatting and emailing i knew that she was the right one, and when i first met her she bowled me over.
It has been 1 year & a half now and we are living together & are so happy, i have met the one & it is all thanks to you guys at Gothic match as i would never have met her with your excellent website.
I'm hoping to get married to her in the very near future & i can see a long & very happy future for us both. Me & shaz have both recommended your website to friends to see if they can achieve the happiness and perfect match that we both have found in each other.
What can I possibly say about Steve? He's my Dark Angel,is the only way i can pin him.. The miracle that fell in back backyard that took me forever to find.
I knew him years ago, we met through my cousin kenny, and chatted for a bit on messenger, but as we got busy and went on in our own little isolated worlds,we gradually stopped speaking and eventually lost contact for the longest time. Neither of us would have dreamed that the other was interested. I originally made a profile to see if I could meet some new people, Out of being tired of being lonely. I have amazing friends, that although they live far away, encourage me to help myself every day, and this was one thing I knew they would strongly encourage. When I saw Steve's picture on here, A lightbulb went off in my head, and instantly I was dying to talk to him.. I knew then that there was probably a reason why he has been in my thoughts every so often over the past three years. It took me only a few days or so, but eventually I decided that this site just had to be worth it.. and i joined up as a member, and yes, mainly to Talk to this "Zekk" Guy that I haven't been able to forget for the past three years. We started talking, and although he didn't remember me nearly as clearly as I remembered him, we got along splendedly, and over the next month or so became really good friends, to the point where i would do anything to make him happy, and sometimes his isolation and moodiness worried me.. I knew this was a caring, warm, romantic, and purely good guy, and I wanted him to be happy , no matter what it cost me, and I told him that even if we never got to have anything romantic, I wanted him to quit depriving himself of happiness. He didn't think he was ready to date, mostly out of a fear of disappointment, but I think he was moved by my tearful concern, and fear that he would abandon our friendship. I decided right then and there that I was gonna show up on his birthday and make sure he wasn't alone, no matter what, and I did. I was so excited, and even more so when I walked in the door.. He took my coat and asked me to get comfortable.. and from his eyes I could tell that he was far more fascinated in me than he let on online.. He just seemed afraid to show it until he was sure he could see the same thing in me. ... Our eyes met.. and we kissed.. and we were inseparable the whole day from then on, Like children, we goofed around and stared into each other's eyes, and he even invited me for a very intimate shower ;-). After all that,as we sat comfortably on the couch he asked me if I wanted to be his girl.. I was shocked, since it was so soon after we met, how easily it took to change his mind.. apparently he was very smitten with me, and said he found me caring, warm, fun, beautiful and just. .extraordinary. He hadn't been able to open up that quickly to anyone.. and honestly, neither had I..not since I had had my heart crushed years ago by some guy who was only having fun. It felt like Steve and I had been friends forever, and I lost all cares with him. It felt like I finally had a home again with him...I didn't leave for days... There has been many more visits between us, and much more growth, but the fascination between us.. and the comitment.. the comitment of two, normally nontrusting people, continues to grow. This seems to be the first Stable relationship either of us have ever had.. and for the first time in a long time.. we both have something to hope for
Like Steve Said the other night "it felt like there was nothing before there was you"
Sweetheart, you couldn't have said it better.
With many good wishes,