Okay this is definetly going to draw some fire but who cares. Anyone else here tired of being told they're hot? Im an atractive man, I realize this, but I am sick of being told it. Im always getting hit on by girls (and guys) at parties or clubs or bars. Here is the crux; Ive never had a GF and the last 6 girls (in 3yrs) that I really liked didn't want to go past the flirting stage (though they are almost all in relationships now). The last person that told me I was hot I almost cussed out! Anyone else experience this?
I wish lol. Hot just shows they find you physically attractive, I would just take that as a compliment. The difficult part comes after, getting to know someones personality. Just because you think someones beautiful does'nt mean you'll get on with them. Physical attraction only goes so far then you're into the whole thing of having to click with someone. Then you're in the minefield of putting off signals which get seen as too confident, not confident enough, too nice, not nice enough, too clingy, too stand offish. Attraction between people is the most rediculously complicated thing.