I remember when i first joined if someone message you the message went both to your inbox AND email address it made contact easier the problem i am seeing these days with this site alot member have last logged in a month or more ago BECAUSE i suspect the direct message is not going to them this NEEDS to change its making it hard and killing things from some of the members remarks i,ve seen , the closest to be informed is hey you quite popular which not helpful as many times those end up in spam so members do not see them if the site can revert back to allowing direct messages to be sent to peoples email it would improve the quality of the site
I totally agree with you my friend its seems this site as fallen i did see it was being sold so perhaps the new owners if there in any have less interest/knowledge then the previous ones did and its all money now
It's sad to see that it's hard to make contact here now, before they had chat too, and there where ppl on it all the time, talking about music styles concerts ect. There isn't anyone on anymore, I can't find any other good places to meet other cool ppl. If they want more activity again Gothicmatch needs to bring back the chat page. PS listening to Faith and the Muse's Sparks on Gothic paradise.