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What are your flaws..

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There was this blog that I responded to where the subject was the perfect man.. subtitute mate and we open it up to all..

So on the flip side of it all what about what people don't want to find in a mate. To bang out responses on this is way too easy and open to way too much opinion.. sooo... to make it a greater challenge we'll call it an honesty test..

Everyone grab a mirror and do spend some introspective time. What would you consider your own flaws.. OOOHH SCAARRY... this would be going out on a limb..

Rules.. you can't talk about another person, only yourself.

If you say you dont have any, then that's a fault within itself..

and I'll put my own out there but only after some responses come in. I want to keep this frame exclusively for the question alone.
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I'm impatient and intolerant.
I can't just wait around while the rest of the world cacth up with me :-D
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DeepTranquility write:
Recently, my farts are deadly. Even I have to move. I don't know what it is but it may get classed as chemical warfare soon!

If I was with someone there is no way we would be sleeping in the same bed


All I can think of with that statement is dutch oven. One of the most horrid things you can do to someone.

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I think my flaws can also be considered good traits. It's all a matter of perception.
For example, I'm very blunt and straightforward. I'm very sarcastic. Some people like those qualities.
On the other hand, I can be a bit fickle, I overanalyze things, I feel too much, I develop fixations (on people, movies, books), I am narcissistic, I am stubborn, I know the type of person I am attracted to and generally don't stray from that ideal, and I can be shallow.
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Huummm... Hard to say... Maybe one day, when I've gotten rid of all my telepathic leeches I could tell you...
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Physically...I think I'm too thin even after having a baby 9 months ago...at 5'10" I'm only 125 lbs. I think I have a big nose and at times I'm self conscious of my average size breasts. Mentally...I analyze everything! I also tend to procrastinate way too much and I have issues with trying to be perfect... I only have my family to blame for that one.
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Recently, my farts are deadly. Even I have to move. I don't know what it is but it may get classed as chemical warfare soon!

If I was with someone there is no way we would be sleeping in the same bed
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I am too self-critical and lack confidence in the appeal of my work to others. I am a writer, but I procrastinate and generally avoid submitting my work anywhere because I'm afraid of rejection. I make excuses that I do not have the time or my work is longer than what the magazine/ezine/anthology is accepting.

On a physical note, I am a bit overweight, but well-proportioned so I look less overweight than I am. I'm working on that though. I recently joined a gym.
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I too am unforgiving. It seems that's why a lot of past friends didn't stick around. That's why most people don't stick around. Not like that's a bad thing. Maybe i'm too harsh about mistakes, though. Though, I wouldn't want to be anyone's door mat. I have this thing with confrontation right from the onset of a problem. It's over. Everyone makes mistakes. But there are certain kinds of mistakes that can't be forgiven, the first, and last, time.
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my flaws are i tend to get stuck on poeple...
when i crush on someone its like they take over my thoughts and i just think about that person..
so i get caught up in poeple too much..
also im self conscious...
i think about ways to harm poeple...
not so much mentally but more physical...
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My Flaws...I am Vengeful...hurt my family/friends ...do me harm it such a way that its unforgiveable...I will take revenge.I am ruthless and I ..like a cat...can wait.Ive patience enough to wait to pounce.I have no confidence in my appearance...Ive never liked the way I look albiet you would never know it by the time it takes me to don my attire/makeup etc.Theres more but thats enough for now
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Wytzchia...NONSENSE....You are an intelligent and sweet person and pride is not a flaw unless has false pride.Never thought that it should be on the sin list
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wolven...You dont have flaws just kinks in your armor...:)
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my flaws are the bits that hold all the other bits of me together.....a bit like a beaded doilley! im proud of my flaws........why denigh them!
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Hardly, Prowler.

No pity parties here. The whole point to any level of improvement is to identify areas that could use refinement or strengthening.

It also takes a considerable amount of self-integrity to look within and to take into account those things within one's self that could use work.

Clearly you either don't have any, or completely lack the ability to do this. Fortunately for those types, there's therapy, medication and or institutionalization.
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I have just had a recollection from a previous blog some months ago where I referred to Mr Prowly one as as nothing more than an average Joe masquerading as a psychopath...words to that effect. But I distinctly remember him asking what a psychopath is...someone who has studied psychology at even a basic level would have enough skill in the area of personality pathology to understand this term!
Just a small point to illustrate that which we all suspected...
Oh and a high IQ means nothing, other than you are really, really good at doing IQ tests.
They are usually used to secure funding for the disabled as if one scores low enough they can get priority housing, financial help and access to all manner of government assistance. Apart from that, not much good to anyone.
As for university degrees...well I would not class myself as smart but I have still managed to get a few under my belt and score a well paid job, you just need to know how to work the system :)
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To many to name just like my positive points so they balance out in the end to create a perfectly imperfect person.



Probably my favourite quote in this blog ^^
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Low self-esteem (work in progress)
Shy (again work in progress lol)
Too willing to blame everything on myself
Too willing to sacrifice my life in servitude to others
Too trusting at times
Too lazy at times
Think too much
Frown a lot even when mostly it just means i'm concentrating on something!
Pretend sometimes that I like/know about something in order not to feel embarrassed that I don't
Can't seem to go to bed at a reasonable time lol
Indecisive

And plenty of other things, however my flaws are mine to work on and for nobody else to try and change ;)
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Saffer, EEEEWWWWW!.. I know you didn't send that one to me.. I'm pretty sure I know where that one was going..

Ok everyone.. I'm moving the whole Freudian thing over to a new blog. Can we try to keep it over there?
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Since Freud is so correct have fun fucking your mother. Whatever that's all I'm going to say. I have better things to do then spare more time on you. Of course your retort will be well that's because you can't put up a better arguement. The truth. I don't really care too much. You bore me.