I dont think i am, I dont feel i am... But still somtimes i wonder you know...
Most goths i come accross are too young for me, or is it i'm too old for them? lol! Anyway, for a single man to be goth certainly means a lot less fish in the sea.
But i dont want to stop or dress in jeans or tracky daks and sneakers to be more appealing to 'normal' women.
Goth sure frightens a lot away!
Maybe it coz the goth scene here is sooooo small.
I dont think i am, I dont feel i am... But still somtimes i wonder you know... Most goths i come accross are too young for me, or is it i'm too old for them? lol! Anyway, for a single man to be goth certainly means a lot less fish in the sea. But i dont want to stop or dress in jeans or tracky daks and sneakers to be more appealing to 'normal' women. Goth sure frightens a lot away! Maybe it coz the goth scene here is sooooo small.
its really funny, ive alsways used dark make-up dressed in black way before they called it goth, i just turned 42 on Oct 19th and i still get carded lol im in pretty good shape so i can still wear go-gi boots, manson boots mini skirts, fetish wear exc...so i think men and woman as they get grey/ distinguished lines... i think they can still be goth, just dress more appropriate, maybe for the men on the formal side, women long black or dark earth tone dresses and still wear their make-up as usual! Anyone in here like zentai?
its really funny, ive alsways used dark make-up dressed in black way before they called it goth, i just turned 42 on Oct 19th and i still get carded lol im in pretty good shape so i can still wear go-gi boots, manson boots mini skirts, fetish wear exc...so i think men and woman as they get grey/ distinguished lines... i think they can still be goth, just dress more appropriate, maybe for the men on the formal side, women long black or dark earth tone dresses and still wear their make-up as usual! Anyone in here like zentai?
well goth has been around for a wile.and you are what you are.your right the scene is small in adelaide.but i would not want to look like some normal brain washed twit for anyone unless for some crap job only at the job to, because you hafe to for money and i wouldnt cut my hair though.hippies are hippies goths are goths and all the rest of alternative life styles i have respect for,but the norm is ugly to me!im sure you can still get a goth women even a young one i know it can seem hard though . and if you were with a normal girl the music and all would be yuck.you come first i wouldnt give in for some girl.and when she leaves ,youll be standing there in some ridiculous clothes feeling silly.GOTH RULES!!!!!!!!
well goth has been around for a wile.and you are what you are.your right the scene is small in adelaide.but i would not want to look like some normal brain washed twit for anyone unless for some crap job only at the job to, because you hafe to for money and i wouldnt cut my hair though.hippies are hippies goths are goths and all the rest of alternative life styles i have respect for,but the norm is ugly to me!im sure you can still get a goth women even a young one i know it can seem hard though . and if you were with a normal girl the music and all would be yuck.you come first i wouldnt give in for some girl.and when she leaves ,youll be standing there in some ridiculous clothes feeling silly.GOTH RULES!!!!!!!!
well goth has been around for a wile.and you are what you are.your right the scene is small in the usa .but i would not want to look like some normal brain washed twit for anyone unless for some crap job only at the job to, because you hafe to for money and i wouldnt cut my hair though.hippies are hippies goths are goths and all the rest of alternative life styles i have respect for,but the norm is ugly to me!im sure you can still get a goth women even a young one i know it can seem hard though . and if you were with a normal girl the music and all would be yuck.you come first i wouldnt give in for some girl.and when she leaves ,youll be standing there in some ridiculous clothes feeling silly.GOTH RULES!!!!!!!!
well goth has been around for a wile.and you are what you are.your right the scene is small in the usa .but i would not want to look like some normal brain washed twit for anyone unless for some crap job only at the job to, because you hafe to for money and i wouldnt cut my hair though.hippies are hippies goths are goths and all the rest of alternative life styles i have respect for,but the norm is ugly to me!im sure you can still get a goth women even a young one i know it can seem hard though . and if you were with a normal girl the music and all would be yuck.you come first i wouldnt give in for some girl.and when she leaves ,youll be standing there in some ridiculous clothes feeling silly.GOTH RULES!!!!!!!!
I think your looking quite good man. I wouldn't worry about being "too old". I'd be more worried about how its presented and even that is a bit trivial. Just be you :D
I think your looking quite good man. I wouldn't worry about being "too old". I'd be more worried about how its presented and even that is a bit trivial. Just be you :D
To old for goth? Not until you feel it. Keep in mind old is always 20 years older then whatever you are. I know what you mean though, here where I am at the goth scene is very small, and I am at thirty pretty much about 10-15 years older then anyone else in it. Makes it a little rough. But I think that even should we choose to dress in normal clothes and tennies that we would still be goth through our thoughs and actions. I always found it not so much a look as a feel. So nope never to old!
To old for goth? Not until you feel it. Keep in mind old is always 20 years older then whatever you are. I know what you mean though, here where I am at the goth scene is very small, and I am at thirty pretty much about 10-15 years older then anyone else in it. Makes it a little rough. But I think that even should we choose to dress in normal clothes and tennies that we would still be goth through our thoughs and actions. I always found it not so much a look as a feel. So nope never to old!
I like older Goths. The older the better. I do not like playing the drama game which I have seen enough of in DC/NOVA area. Love those people but lets get real. And it seems that the younger the goths are the more drama that comes into their life. Poor babies. I, myself, have I cherished livestyle, I have grown up in the country. Where there was only one freaky person and that was me. And they accepted me; with love. Now, I live in the country, another part, and they too accept me with love. Don't try to be something you are not, just be...
I like older Goths. The older the better. I do not like playing the drama game which I have seen enough of in DC/NOVA area. Love those people but lets get real. And it seems that the younger the goths are the more drama that comes into their life. Poor babies. I, myself, have I cherished livestyle, I have grown up in the country. Where there was only one freaky person and that was me. And they accepted me; with love. Now, I live in the country, another part, and they too accept me with love. Don't try to be something you are not, just be...
Noodles....
1.Wear the good toupee
2.Leave the assless chaps for another
occassion
3.Never use the minivan as the going
out transportation
Your post always kill me.
Noodles.... 1.Wear the good toupee 2.Leave the assless chaps for another occassion 3.Never use the minivan as the going out transportation Your post always kill me.
Frightening people away with one's dress sense is a good thing. It saves having to tell judgemental people to remove themselves from our presence at some future point. Obviously, it's not a foolproof plan...
I mean, check out some of the judgemental fools on GM, but it narrows down the field a fair bit.
Frightening people away with one's dress sense is a good thing. It saves having to tell judgemental people to remove themselves from our presence at some future point. Obviously, it's not a foolproof plan... I mean, check out some of the judgemental fools on GM, but it narrows down the field a fair bit.
I don't think you can ever be too old for a way of life. Sure, some people are intimidated by the style of dress that most goths wear, but there are still women out there who prefer that look to any other. There are a lot of women who are inticed by the way that goth men look. Keep your head up, doll! There IS someone for you out there!
take care darlin
I don't think you can ever be too old for a way of life. Sure, some people are intimidated by the style of dress that most goths wear, but there are still women out there who prefer that look to any other. There are a lot of women who are inticed by the way that goth men look. Keep your head up, doll! There IS someone for you out there! take care darlin
TOO OLD? i don't think you can be too old for anything....there are those times when people should stop trying to wear those favorite pair of tight pants (haha) but- NAH! i believe goth is both a personality and fashion thing- but its one that can fit for a lot of people! so yea- defiantly not too old. :) hell- i'l even comment on the fact that your a pretty good-looking 43 year old goth. hm...here's a new theory....goth makes things look better- hahaha....hm...i leave you with that- im gonna go ponder on this more...:D
TOO OLD? i don't think you can be too old for anything....there are those times when people should stop trying to wear those favorite pair of tight pants (haha) but- NAH! i believe goth is both a personality and fashion thing- but its one that can fit for a lot of people! so yea- defiantly not too old. :) hell- i'l even comment on the fact that your a pretty good-looking 43 year old goth. hm...here's a new theory....goth makes things look better- hahaha....hm...i leave you with that- im gonna go ponder on this more...:D
Being I'm in the same boat do what I do when I go to the clubs:
1.Wear the good toupee
2.Leave the assless chaps for another
occassion
3.Never use the minivan as the going
out transportation
Brother there are too many young uns but there are several "Women" here too. Either raise the age limit of what you're looking for or keep looking for an "old soul" Best wishes.
-Noodles
Being I'm in the same boat do what I do when I go to the clubs: 1.Wear the good toupee 2.Leave the assless chaps for another occassion 3.Never use the minivan as the going out transportation Brother there are too many young uns but there are several "Women" here too. Either raise the age limit of what you're looking for or keep looking for an "old soul" Best wishes. -Noodles
