I wouldn't object to Cradle of Filth's "Swansong for a Raven", either. Either Type O or Cradle would work. Or maybe, Type O at the beginning, when everyone's getting settled, to set the mood....then Cradle at the end, so they leave with something that'll stick in their heads for a while.
there are currently two songs that pops up in my mind, that i would wish that could be played at my funeral, those songs are 'heavens a lie' by lacuna coil, and 'the wreckage of my flesh' by my dying bride.
A friend of mine recently said to me, after i had put on my dying bride: ''bro, are this a funeral all the sudden?''...
i would have dust in the wind, highway to hell, and no more tears because i want to be cremated, i know im going to hell, and because i dont want my family to cry at my funeral, cuz i hate seeing them like that.