ok this is a rant,,my personal feels about something i have just read,if you want to add to this and tell me im not right or unfeeling please feel free but i wont respond,im not going to argue this its just the way i see it ,,,,i read a post about a women actually a girl whos ex killed imself and she felt really bad about it thought it was her fault and i really wanted to right something on her post but i wont,anyone who takes there own life is an idiot,coward,wanker and lots of other derogative words it wont let me type here,i had an accident that put me in the hospital for a bit,in the bed next to me was guy guy named steve a really cool guy with a wife and two kids over the months i got to know him and i liked him,to cut a long story sort something happened one night and he was taken away,he didnt come back,his wife who i got to know to came in and said good bye,,,,i dont think i have ever seen sadness on a persons face like it before ,,,,he really wanted to live,,he wanted to watch his kids grow,,,but like most people in life he didnt get a choice,there is nothing remotly romantic about suicide you take your life which is your chioce i guess,and wasted what someone else would give everything to hold onto,you are pathetic,sad and as said a wanker rant over ........
I'm going to have to be the heartless here.
Honestly, if you bitch about how life sucks and how nothing good happens to you, even though alot of great things do, and your always telling someone who really cares about you that you hate your life and want to kill yourself, then you seriously should just do it.
Because no matter what I say to you, you don't change, and you always try to make me feel guilty.
You always make me out to be the bad guy; you always talk about wanting to kill all of my friends who took you in when you had no one. I'm sick of the way you talk to me, I'm sick of how you don't accept compliments only to beg for more
But most of all I'm sick of you.
So if your life is so miserable then end it.
Just pick up those razors you overuse just to show me how much you don't care about me, and slit yourself open deeper this time.
Please just let me answer the phone when your mothers crying on the other end saying how much she loved you even though she told you every day that you looked like a slut and how god won't ever accept you.
Don't do it for me, do it for yourself.
What I believe and what you believe may be totally different things.
I believe in waiting. Death has a lot of people he needs to get to before he can get to you.
He's busy enough, leave him alone.
Death don't want you, so just live your life through.
He will come when it's time.
I know everybody has an opinion about suicide but the thing is it is going to happen. Some people can work their way through painful time without harming themselves or even killing themselves but some are in some much pain whether is physical or emotional that they just want it to stop. I am one of these people. Two years ago I loved someone so much that when they broke my heart if caused me a great deal of pain and I could not coop. I lost my job and became distant from my friends and family. I started hurting myself and in the end I tried to kill myself. As you can tell I did not succeed. I felt so guilty about what I tried to do because not only had I failed to end my pain but I caused my ex pain by making her feel guilty as well. I was staying with a friend at the time and I felt I so guilty that I made him swear not to tell my family what had actually happen, they still do not know what I did and I cannot tell them. It is not that I did not succeed that made me feel guilty it was how many people I had hurt in the process. That is why my family will never know. I did not think of how it would affect the people around me and that is why I have not tried again. I would have missed alot if I had died that day. I still have not managed to get a job but I do have something to live for, one of my sisters is pregnant, I am going to be and uncle. I do not think I am going to try again. I have gotten good friends again will everyone I had became distant from, I made some new friends as well the only thing I have not done is gotten close to someone. I might sound a wimp but I scared that if I did and they found out what I did they would leave me. Hell I do want to met someone and start a family but that will always linger over me.
Yeah. In Islam, suicide is not looked kindly upon. But then, many religions don't agree with suicide and many cultures (whether with religious or non-religious influence) don't agree with it. In some cultures, the mention of suicide is taboo and even mental disorders like depression, bipolar, schizophrenia or the various personality disorders are not discussed among the general population, which put sufferers of these disorder in an even more desperate state.
I think people who commit suicide are 'strong', in a different sense. I beleive the human body is designed (or evolved) to survive and will do anything to survive. People who have attempted or have succeeded in suicide overcome this natural desire to survive.
Looking in another direction, you are what you think you are. The mind is a powerful tool. It keeps you alive and it can kill you.
The very though of siuside is brought by a darastic stress change in one enviromental surounding.... sorry I cant spell ....anyways if a person committed suicide you could say they had guts.... in a sense,,, I kno you dont have it niether do I.... I spend my life smoking blunt and drinkng until i pass out becuase i cant take the pian i feel inside.. Its kinda like suicide but really its a easy way out yeah.... but its comforting to kno that i feel a little better.
Prowler90 write: To Veratia! Exactly my point Veratia, we dont know! Its the not knowing that causes one fear! Judgement at the hands of a higher power is fearful. In the same respect the idea that everything you are and were no longer exists is also a scary prospect. But people that think, this doesnt include everyone. Dwell on the possibility of what comes after at some point. I myself often think about it. Even though in many respects only a fool asks why?
Ones life has to mean something for one to fear the prospect of ones own extintion. (sorry my english)
You cant regreat the nothing.
I sometimes think about something which has been proved not to happen...but I think that for those who love their bodies and the person they are it is justified...doctors tell us that when we die our body doesnt feel anything anymore and as intelligent logical beings we are - well, some of us that is - we know that is true, it couldnt be otherwise...but one thing is to know it another is not to fear it...the thought of having my body buried 6 feet under the ground while being eaten by worms is kind of panicking to me, reason why I wanna be put in a burial chamber (tomb) which is arranger pre-death as you know...I know I wont probably get rid of the bugs but go figure why mind feels more at ease. I always hated closed spaces...and Im still alive therefor my mind finds ways of escape whenever I think about my body dead. This is not because I totally love my body - which I actually do - it is only pure instinct - human instinct that is - trying to perserve what we are for as long as we can. For me, this is quite a contradictory feeling coz at the same time I do feel it I also dont give a damn while I know this all concept to be quite stupid,but I guess we all have our fears concerning death.My 2 fears are concerning the body and the other one is not pre nor post death but during...lol...yeah,death is quite a complicate matter.
Prowler90 write: All this talk that Suicide is the weak way out is somewhat annoying! How many people actually have the balls to go ahead and take their own life? Even though suicide does require some insanity! Living the next fifty years in a shit filled existence in my eyes is much weaker approach!
When one choses to end it, one faces two frightening outcomes! 1) An eternity of nothingness! Everything they ever had or were is gone. 2) Judgement had the hands of a God! We all know suicides a sin, so one who takes his own life will likely go down town.
When ppl talk about suicide they all talk about how weak a suicidal is but we must not forget that - despise many say the contrary - we all fear death, one way or another, only because of the prespective of the unknown ahead...we dont know nothing about death and about the after-life, we dont even know if it exists, we may believe it does but the truth is, we dont know.
So, I think that it takes a serious ammount of guts to terminate your own life, noone does it lightly...what happens is that when ppl do it they are not really thinking of the consequences, they hurt and they dont wanna hurt anymore, thats all there is to them...there's a kind of suicide I consider shamefull, thats when ppl literally choose the easy way out - for them off course - its when there are some serious debts or in case of bankrupcy or when one commits suicide because one does not want to face a problem or other ppl...for me thats being weak contrary to the lack of judgement the other kind of suicidals have, so theyre not really being weak.
Suicide does not require insanity - in my view that is - it requires a very high ammount of desperation.
I dont agree with your 2 frightning outcomes.
1- We dont know whats behond life...we may believe its nothing and we may believe in Heaven or some other thing, but the reality is that we dont know.
2- We dont know if theres a god...not a hell
You don't think there are people who have been left in the dust? Some would say that killing yourself is not cowardly or selfish, but maybe a liberation of the soul or self. Most people who kill themselves(not all) have some sort of mental illness. They are not necessarilly thinking "normally". How could you call them selfish and a coward, when they couldn't control there thoughts and impulses. That does happen.
All this talk that Suicide is the weak way out is somewhat annoying!
How many people actually have the balls to go ahead and take their own life?
Even though suicide does require some insanity!
Living the next fifty years in a shit filled existence in my eyes is much weaker approach!
When one choses to end it, one faces two frightening outcomes!
1) An eternity of nothingness! Everything they ever had or were is gone.
2) Judgement had the hands of a God! We all know suicides a sin, so one who takes his own life will likely go down town.
Each of the above outcomes are behond the comprehension of the human mind, both giving a sour afterthought!
If I decide one day I cant stand the pain of living, who the fuck as the right to judge me?
No man can step in my mind and know my pain and know how I feel!
In the UK, the goverment dont like this to be known be the way, the highest suicide rates are males between 21- 26!
years of age!
Now this is a sad reflection of society!
That the youngest are the ones taking their own life. In its self this evidence tells a dark story!
The world is becoming a darkier place. Opportunity is becoming fewer and far between. The stress and anxiety of modern living is becoming increasingly unbearable!
I can honestly understand and emphasise with those who take their own lifes!
As cynical as my post may be, it doesnt change the dark truth of modern society!
I agree and disagree. It's a person's choice what they do, but it's still not a nice thing. When one commits suicide, they hurt other people as well. It took barely living through an attempted suicide to teach me that. But it's still up to the person. Whether you care who it hurts or not, consider it wrong or otherwise, the final choice is yours.