being alone hurts we arnt meant to be alone but more often that not we are as for friend ship it doent solve the problem but gives you some one to talk to tho in the end you either become to close to you friend or you simply dont wish to hsare whats goes on in you heart
GothicDudeLee write: i've been alone nearly all my life, and also up until now too!, im still alone with no peeps round me, its fucking bringing me down to the ground, im so fucking depressed!! :(
i need help seriously, like a new girlfriend!!!. i hate being neglected :(
Just to let you know (Don't know if you'll even read this but it's worth a shot, that and your situation may have changed) there are quite a lot of nights out and meetups of the gothic variety not that far from you so if you ever find yourself lonely try and find one of them and go along. This is what i've done and I have found quite a lot of great people who live near and even if I only see them once every few weeks it's way better than not at all.
If you've ever heard of Darklands that's definitely worth checking out (even though it's held here which is about half an hour away from you) and there's actually quite a few other great things going on in the wirral vicinity. Or even in manchester. You just have to search them out (I was forced to myself and don't regret it).
Back on topic, yes being alone can be one of the worst things but you've just got to get out there and meet people so you don't end up that way. Hopefully you'll make so many new friends you'll find yourself desperate to find some time to spend on your own lol.
Hey man, I used to stay at home, never go out never talk to anyone, basically fucked off everyone i used to know. I delved into a state of lonliness and depression I wish not to go back to. I wouldn't care to eat, didn't care about showers or hygiene. Sometimes I hid when people came over cause the way i looked. I completely became destroyed with no hope and the thoughts of suicide wentin and out in and out. So how did I get out of it? I really don't know. well im still depressed but I see some friends everyonce and a while. the truth is that no matter what kinda person you are, there's always people around you that will accept you and get along with you. I learned that. But If you are feeling lonely and all, you have to benear people. Another thing that works is animals. if you have a pet than spend time with it. Makes you feel better. But you gotta meet people as much as possible and keep meeting them. Some people take friendship for granted and its a beautiful thing. If you are also shy around people like me, just have someone you know like a relative and introduce you to some people. And as you talk to them you become less shy and more friendly and it feels great. I don't wanna go back to that feeling again. You shouldget out of it. I can also say that if you feel bad just write all your problems down in a blog or a journal to as many people. When people feel sorry for me and talk to me online it kinda makes me feel better cause i know there's caring people out there in the world and that care about me. I'm still not happy though but im still here. I go to college so Im around alot of people makes me feel good. Not even people you know. Just being around people makes me feel good. But that's probably just me. We'll hope I help. I wish i could help everyone. And about a girlfriend, If you land one its gonna make your life either so much more happier or so much more shittier. so having friends is a better way than finding a woman. But that's just me as well.
being alone is not how any one should be. except when you want to be alone. that is what i think. i am always alone so its not that big of a deal to me. were i live there is no one like me and no one under stands the way i am.
death comes to us all weather it comes when your alone or with some one it will come be sure of that so why fear what you cant stop yes id rather not die alone but if my number is up its up what most people need to learn is that you dont need any one in your life its just a nice perk to have in life so dont worry about it and just live to the best you can and dont let the fact of dieing alone make you get with every person you find to try and beat the fact that you may one day die alone have some peace with yourself dont ever feel like you need some one
The way I see it, you have two options. You can either adapt to this fear and accept it. Once you've done this, it will bother you alot less.
Your second option is to surround yourself with friends and loved ones.
I agree partly with that statement. My belief is that the only way one can escape death is to leave a legacy behind. For once you die, that's it. But if you have left something behind that alters the world in a significant or even not so significant way, then perhaps you will never die. As long as your accomplishments are acknowledged, you will survive. If it's peace you want, death is the solution. For there is no pain, no anger, no happiness, no joy. In death there is nothing. Do the dead care that they are dead? I think not.