...Gee It happened to me twice in life already. I loved someone, did something stupid, and lost him. I was together with him for more than a year, and then I french kisses a 14-year-old babybat in a club, and he learned about it. I regret it like Hell now. Part of me tells me its my lust's fault and that I should give up trying to reach him, and move on (I already am looking for someone else), but part of my tells me to try and get him back even if it takes a century.
Has it ever happened to you? Did any of you get back the one they lost? How?

My biggest regret so far. Aleck. I met him when I was 13 I was on his football team. I despised him because I thought he was really full of himself because he was really really hot. Until Valentines day. He came up to me with his long blond hair blue eyes and French accent and gave me a Black Rose and said "A black Rose for your black heart." We started going out a week later. He treated me with so much love like I was the only and most beautiful person in the world that deserved to be charished. I Went out with him for two years. My friend informed me that he was cheating on me. I broke up with him and he killed himself. Turns out it was all a lie he didn't cheat on me my best friend just wanted to go out with him.

i don't do regrets. if i fvck up, i deal with it and move on. (lesson learned) never make the same mistake twice.

You know, I'm not sure that I can answer this properly...because...well, you'll see.
I have regret for each of my four serious relationships of the past...but none of them were my fault. In each one, the guy did something terribly stupid, and I made the decision for my own benefit to leave them.
The reason I have regret for something so stupid...is because I hate hurting people emotionally. Physically is a turn on...but anyway, I have regret for breaking their hearts even though it was they that did the breaking.
My poor broken heart...

Regret is a funny thing. I'm 42 now, and I find that the old adage is true: "It's not what one DOES that one regrets, but what one DOES NOT do." Which means I probably should have taken a chance or two on men I bypassed. Who knows what would be different now?

Samantha

i'm sure i'm going to come across as a heel but it must be said. If you have a boyfriend and kiss someone else, you dont deserve the trusting partner you had. You want to fool around and make yourseld available then thats all fine and dandy, but dont hurt those that trust you and shame on you.

I hope you understand that being cheated on is worse than even your worst enemy could do becuase you made someone believe you were true to them. You didnt lose him, he lost you and to word it otherwise is selfish.

I
m really scared of losing a friend right now through me being paranoid about him. I
m always presuming things that might not even be true and asking silly questions. Also sometimes I go a little nasty (on messenger, I
ll type a load of crap and sarcasm), but thats rare, were daft and it
s fun together. So mostly we get on great. It
s just if something did happen! I love him. =/

i regret losing my m.u. 2 years ago cuz i got tired of him. it was a long distance relatioship and i was just 14 then..he was 16..we met at an interschool conference and dated the day after we were introduced. i never saw him again after the conference but we kept on texting for about 3 months and then slowly we grew tired of each other and it was because of my insensitivity which i didn't understand then. it's only recently that i understood hat he meant when he said that i'm insensitive!

I think that is one of my biggest fears is regret. Up to the point where I am struggling now with some issues.

Now I try to do things well thought out, but its almost like I am too careful now. But the stekes are a lot higher and effects more than one person.

I don't know though, I think regret is just part of life. Because what if you could go back and change something, whats to say you might just regret that deciscion as well.

But then there are things that are just truly wrong and really shouldn't of been done. All you can do is make amends and try to never do anything like that again.

I lost my best friend becaus I was a control freak...the worse type. I learn the hard way and I am making shure it never hapen again...belive me, never again.

every guy realtionship I've ever had

I LOST SOME ONE TOO. BUT I WAS WITH HER FOR 5 YEARS!WE BOTH WERE DOING STUPID THINGS TO EACH OTHER BUT I THINK WE ENJOYED IT..WOULD I GET BACK WITH HER.................NO NOT A CHANCE...THAT PART OF MY LIFE IS GONE AND I DONT WANT TO BE THAT PERSON AGAIN.. WELL TAKE IT FROM ME..DONT LOOK BACK AND DONT HAVE REGRATS!