It seems that the only poeple that anyone talks to anymore are the ones with pritty faces.But what of someone such as myself?What of the people like me?We are not models or glamerous.Intelligence used to count for something.Why do people only seek out the paperthin girls whose personallity is as thin as they are?

I have found out in life that you need to be confident wit you self..and not be LOOKING for someone , so to speak..Just love yourself and love life and try to positive, also smile..It does wonders..and trust me..You will find someone..or..someone will find you..


Good luck,

Joe

Ignoring the original question (it's been well answered and was rather predictable anyway) I think Raven needs to stop trying to use the second person singular, at least until he knows how it is in fact used ;-)

Because there are enough intelligent AND attractive people around, so no need to talk to fuglies.

I agree with thee, friend. Beauty as thou hast said, comes from the inside, and it does well to have a grand sense of humor. I myself believe as thee dost. I ask of thee, what thinks thee of romance? I seek someone who has a heart as pure as thine, friend. Wishing to possibly meet. Blessed be, Mindsweeper. (From Raven Moonthorn)

Todays society is very judgmental...
and people are A-holes...that's why >.

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Given the 989.9 the rock posters in teh background, the makeup on your face, and the positioning of the fencing, and the grass on the ground.

I'd rather have a conversation with someone intelligent then look at a pretty face.
I'll talk to anyone and have friends from all walks of life and if anyone wants to chat. this nickname at y a h o o , so email me or messenger.

Ill talk 2 any 1! no matter what race ,color or religion!!!

I go by three rules.
How do you get my attention?
Can you keep conversation interesting?
I go by my instinct to choose who I feel something for.

Personality, Intelligence, and something on a spirtual level are all above looks. I must admit that sometimes I look at the face but, everyone has a different view on beauty. View yourself as beautiful and others will too. Sarcasam, and a sense of humor helps get attention as well. Make an interesting profile and an attention grabbing title and people will look.

i dunno....i find that most "pretty" girls are disguised behind overexposed photshop editing. thats a problem I find with the goth scene anywhere on the net. 99 percent are hiding behind special effects.

humans ah lol my two cents for you notice how humans have come from making fire to bjs in the oval office war mongering overweight whiney brats? the states only in this heh. intelligence is wasted if you dont use it, sorry arnold. big biceps and small member dont count, and bush. mm ah! bowling for soup song. 'go back to texas' =P. smart people are a rarity these days dont waste your breath arguing, you know its true there ive paid my debt to society just so i can screw with peoples minds again not u all.

Well, this is what I think. Guys who only go for the looks, are most likely jerks, and when they realize that looks don't matter, it will already be too late. Cause the one they would of been happy with, is already gone. I personally, don't judge people by their otter appearance. I'd rather judge them, from who they are on the inside. After all beauty does lie within it's beholder, or my favorite quote, " Outer beauty is like a rose, smooth, graceful, and beautiful. But roses also have thorns that hurt you, and the beauty eventually dies." So if you base your relationship only on the looks, beware, cause it won't last long, and it will do some damage."..^_^

I myself couldn't care less if you're pretty, if you're a jerk. Being pretty is just another tiny shrimp in the sea of good things about a person. The greatest thing someone could have is a good personality.

There are some decent guys out ther(like myself ^_^) who seek out a woman of high intellect. But its also difficult to date someone you don't find to be at least a little bit attractive.

yea thats probbly why i have been single for so long, or im just shy ; ; girls only seem to like the tall good looking jerks

I've found being both cute but full figured what has determined my destiny in every single relationship I have been in is how I feel about MYSELF. If you feel sexy, you act it.. friendly, you make friends and people want to get to know you. It all kinda depends on your whole attitude about life. Granted there are some people who are attracted to a certain type. Not really shallow or their fault, you are what you are. I think all of us have a certain thing or set of qualities that we look for.

I like Intelligent and strong willed woman, but most people are so shallow these days.
Looks, I want a Barbie or Ken doll looking person. Fuck that. I don't limit myself to it.
I've been with Pretty Ladies and I've been with some not so pretty. I prefer a Lady with some meat on her, not a skeleton(bones showing thru skin)
For me, it's not looks or body type, it's personality. intelligence. I believe in this saying
*1 Heart and 2 minds* but finding the right one or even close to it is the difficult part.
Good Luck All. May You find what thou has been searching for

umm.Pretty people are not always unintelligent..and besides its all in the Eye of the beholder..

I think "pretty" is a double-edged sword. On one hand, it opens doors but on a different level, it closes doors to people liking you for you really are-not just the "facade" that's out front.
Being "pretty"?
It's both curse and blessing...it depends on how one "uses" it and how much import one places on it.
It's all just, an illusion, anyways...