Let's all talk about our wasted time on all those good-fer-nothin's that we thought were the right ones! I'm wallowing in self pity and need to see other people's shitty situations to feel better about my own.

I don't want to get into too much detail but picture this. I am married to this women for four years, have gone out with her for probably 5 or 6 total. She always pushed me away, would wig out and make me feel like total shit sometimes, and always had a hard time trusting me. I've finally had enough... Our relationship is getting worse and worse, and I don't want us to end up hating eachother. We actually built up a strong friendship alongside our relationship which was just great...

Even after the divorce I tried to support her financially as well as I could, as well as "be there" for her when either of us needed it. She would throw major bitch fits in the middle of all erhm, "friendship", I would get pissed and feel like shit later yada yada. Seemed like she did things just to make sure I was miserable.

But lo! She finds a job, and within a month finds a guy, screws him (bad enough to leave marks... that she "tactfully" showcases to me), and now says she's "getting her life on track" and wants nothing to do with me. One damn month. Really, that's all it takes someone to get over a deep and serious relationship, overcome their "trust" issues and instantly trusts some dude she hardly know, and she's sleeping with him. Perfect.

She got herself stable in less than a month, and not over 5 years. Keep in mind too that while we were seperated she confided with me her feelings/problems and we both tried to sort through them together to a point still.

I'm already in a bad state of mind as it is, but seeing her with bruises and hickeys (sp?) just sorta put me over the edge :)

Aaaannddd she rubs it in by telling me she wanted it, and that he's the most respectful guy who ever blah blah... but the ass isn't even considering her his girlfriend. Charming

Been there, it takes a while for the pain to dull but I'm sorry to say, the painful ping that goes off in your stomach everytime you see doesn't go away. Try to focus on you and don't put yourself in situations where you might see her.

dude that's fucked up. sorry but so ex's are like that. i've had friends who were with someone for a long time and the whole tome thire togetter the guy/girl doesn't get a job or do anything they just bitch bitch bitch and drag my friends down. then suddenly the break up and the jerk in question gets their shit togetter.

there are people like that who don't really "wake up" i guess you could say until their on their own. but that sucks what she's doing to you. she should keep her private life private.

i think the worse relationship i have ever been in is a tie between a guy i didn't even like and a girl who wanted my to be a guy. I'm bi.