Why is it that..everytime i talk to a guy..after
a week or so..he vanishes??
I try to be myself,yet..try and be somewhat happy and
of course interested in anything he interested in.
We start talking and it's great and everything.
they never really ask me questions though..i think it's
a bit wierd.I might ask for some new pics,and maybe
ask them to what they like to do,or eat or whatever.
(maybe so when we meet-up we can do somthing we both like)
They seem to stray away from thoes questons,and end up
saying somthing like..'I'm sorry but i'll be too busy
to write to you anymore.' so somthing like..
'weel this has been a good chat,but we must stop this
dance.goodluck to ya.'
Wow,you know it's like i scared them or somthing.
I never take to quick of jumps,in knowing someone.
Do you think..maybe i look to hard-core,
or maybe i don't act GIDDY enough?
Most of the time..i swear that someone is fallowing me
from site to site..scaring off others that talk to me.
People say ..it's the way i 'carry' myself.
what does THAT mean?
when starting out talking to someone you like,
how do you go along about it?Expecially vampire males.
i mean you say 'hello,my lord.' or just 'hello sweets.'
and go by that way?
And if IN person,i always wonder..how do you go up
to another and say 'hi' without looking dumb?
they're judging you before they even meet you or get to know who you really are or they're messing with you and in a relationship already and just flirting with you to see if you'll fall for online dating they'll never admit the real reason they don't want to contact you anymore
you know,about... 4 weeks ago..someone told me that
i 'carry myself' in a strong way.
Like as if..i don't need help or anyone.
That,i have no need for pitty or regret.
I asked if that was a 'good thing'...they said.
''In a way it is,and in one way maybe not-so.''
''Maybe i need a guy thats not a complete sissy then.''