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Posted on Jul 11, 2015 at 07:33 AM

I realized that the reason of all of my misery is simply this: Low Self-Esteem. 

  I need to love and take care of myself in order for others to be able to do the same. I need to make the choice in my life to stop playing victim to my past and start playing the role of a strong Victorian heroine! I must work at myself, learning how to become a better person to myself and others. To reduce my problems of worry, doubt and lack of deserving anything, I myself must become the keeper of my own destiny. I make my own decisions. I live my life, no one else's. I must learn to look at myself in the mirror and say "I love you." instead of critiquing myself i should point out the goodness inside and out of myself! 

    I have my own problems, I have my own faults, but I also am an amazing person. I need to understand this more often than I do. I need to recognize my talents, my skills, my great ability to communicate! Once I build my self-esteem of myself, then I can truly love myself and others. Especially myself. Others will follows suit. I will be able to do things I never dreamed of. I will succeed in everything I do, becuase even if I fail, I will still love myself. That is true success. I will find my path in life and be less indecisive about things. It's only up from here! 



"Normal is an illusion. What is normal to the spider is chaos for the fly." --Morticia Addams
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Posted on Nov 02, 2015 at 04:57 PM

This is so true! I didn't find out how that really works until I was in my forties! Boundaries and self dicipline, self respect, and affirmations. I don't even let customers, family nor friends waste my time with their bullshit. If they don't repsect your boundaries you must cut them loose! You may deserve a lot, but you never deserve someone else's misery! Find your boundaries and stick to them...then confidence will eminate from you and you'll gain self esteem for loving yourself enough not to let other people abuse you! in otherwords... RIGHT ON!!!!

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Posted on Aug 22, 2015 at 04:49 PM

HEAR HEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   People like you go ahead in life.   Can't wait to catch up with you in 20 years and see where you're at!  

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Posted on Jul 27, 2015 at 09:00 PM

well said.

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