Quoting Noodles123:

They come and they go...They need...Get what they want and out the door they go till the next time they need something.
 
 
 
They make plans and cancel in the last moment, they invite you to things only when they request that you bring things, they borrow money, tools, clothing, cds and always forget to return them.
 
 
 
They go places with you and are always short meaning you have to pay for the food or drinks by the end of the night.
 
 
 
When I was younger I had many of these friends because honestly I was naive into thinking "Friends must ALWAYS help out friends."  WHICH IS TRUE...BUT ONLY IF THEY ARE PROVEN FRIENDS.
 
 
 
Too many times we've all given our love, attention, friendship, sweetness to people who don't recipocate or even know that they are selfish...Think about it there are probably several people who are reading this who think they are good friends when the truth is thay are crappy friends...Who never do anything for anyone else but themselves or somehow think that their presence is a gift to mankind (We all can't be Noodles123 kids).
 
 
 
So close your eyes Dear Reader and THINK...Are you a good friend?  When is the last time you helped or did anything for someone else be they family or friends WITHOUT them asking?...I'm not talking build a statue or throw a parade...Make a card, take someone out to lunch, buy them a drink, clean the house, return the borrowed things you've kept for 5 years, bake them some damn cookies.
 
 
 
I tend to cut off my so-so friends every 3 months...I whittle away till only the cream is left...There are so who talk the talk so few that walk the walk.
 
 
 
Friendship is easy...It's not a material thing and any token of affection means much...Hell even a lil text out of the blue that says..."Was thinking about it and am so glad you're my friend and in my life."  Believe it or not that's all it takes.
 
 
 
Quit being lazy teens in your 20's and 30's...You know who you are...You know you're fat, lazy and not good friends...CHANGE.
 
 
 
There will come a time when REAL friends will be scarse and when you'll look for someone anyone to help and all you'll have is hurt feelings and blah memories...Don't wait.
 
 
 
I have lost more so-so friends that I can count and I am sad because many of those I assumed would be with me in my life forever...BUT alas you can't make people be good friends or keep their promises...All you can do is hope for the best and if they don't behave properly...CUT THEM OFF.
 
 
 
Only way people will miss you is if they see what they had and now don't...Those who are real friends will look for you...Those that aren't will get angry at you for pointing out that they aren't good friends...What you do with that knowledge is up to you.

They come and they go...They need...Get what they want and out the door they go till the next time they need something.
 
 
 
They make plans and cancel in the last moment, they invite you to things only when they request that you bring things, they borrow money, tools, clothing, cds and always forget to return them.
 
 
 
They go places with you and are always short meaning you have to pay for the food or drinks by the end of the night.
 
 
 
When I was younger I had many of these friends because honestly I was naive into thinking "Friends must ALWAYS help out friends."  WHICH IS TRUE...BUT ONLY IF THEY ARE PROVEN FRIENDS.
 
 
 
Too many times we've all given our love, attention, friendship, sweetness to people who don't recipocate or even know that they are selfish...Think about it there are probably several people who are reading this who think they are good friends when the truth is thay are crappy friends...Who never do anything for anyone else but themselves or somehow think that their presence is a gift to mankind (We all can't be Noodles123 kids).
 
 
 
So close your eyes Dear Reader and THINK ...Are you a good friend?  When is the last time you helped or did anything for someone else be they family or friends WITHOUT them asking?...I'm not talking build a statue or throw a parade...Make a card, take someone out to lunch, buy them a drink, clean the house, return the borrowed things you've kept for 5 years, bake them some damn cookies.
 
 
 
I tend to cut off my so-so friends every 3 months...I whittle away till only the cream is left...There are so who talk the talk so few that walk the walk.
 
 
 
Friendship is easy...It's not a material thing and any token of affection means much...Hell even a lil text out of the blue that says..."Was thinking about it and am so glad you're my friend and in my life."  Believe it or not that's all it takes.
 
 
 
Quit being lazy teens in your 20's and 30's...You know who you are...You know you're fat, lazy and not good friends...CHANGE.
 
 
 
There will come a time when REAL friends will be scarse and when you'll look for someone anyone to help and all you'll have is hurt feelings and blah memories...Don't wait.
 
 
 
I have lost more so-so friends that I can count and I am sad because many of those I assumed would be with me in my life forever...BUT alas you can't make people be good friends or keep their promises...All you can do is hope for the best and if they don't behave properly...CUT THEM OFF .
 
 
 
Only way people will miss you is if they see what they had and now don't...Those who are real friends will look for you...Those that aren't will get angry at you for pointing out that they aren't good friends...What you do with that knowledge is up to you.

Quoting naughtydarkangel:

wow i just went through the same shit recently and had to cut alot of people out of my life. so i definitely feel u on this one. im tired of being good to people and they dont return the fave.

wow i just went through the same shit recently and had to cut alot of people out of my life. so i definitely feel u on this one. im tired of being good to people and they dont return the fave.