Quoting Noodles123:

Many claim to have it...Few actually do.
 
 
 
Everyone's version and definition of it is different...Mine's simple enough:
 
 
 
Class = Style + Manners + Grace under fire
 
 
 
Some people have the look, the hair and clothes etc but horrible manners...When I speak of manners, I'm talking politeness to others, smile for a stranger, help the needy, not afraid to get involved.
 
Grace under fire is just that:  No panic in bad situations and the ability to smile even as things are sinking...I find that a good sense of humour while fixing the DAMNED is usually the best way to solve a problem...Rather than rant and rave or whine.
 
 
 
 
 
I hope that all good people on GM look for those traits in their "Significant Other." If the person you're with doesn't have those traits 100% of the time then you're lying to yoursel. The relationship will end up in sadness and arguements mixed with broken hearts, broken promises and broken dreams.
 
 
 
Some reading this already know that the person they're with does NOT have it...Let them go before you get trapped...The assholish BF / Slutty GF will end up hurting and using you...You can't change a person's core and if you stay then sadly that's on you.
 
 
 
I know it might be exciting with the bad boy or the sex great with the bad girl but trust me it all comes with a price...At this point I could literally cut off 80% of my past women for the quality 20%...Don't be like me with scars to match my numbers play it smarter than an Old Noodles...Remember experience ain't all that it's cracked up to be...I would have given up plenty of raunchy nights in exchange for not having the drama that followed.
 
 
 
Somehow Karma/Fate/Lady Luck/God has seen it fit to give me things I don't deserve and I'll take them but I also recognize the fact I didn't deserve them...But it did take a minute to understand it.

Many claim to have it...Few actually do.
 
 
 
Everyone's version and definition of it is different...Mine's simple enough:
 
 
 
Class = Style + Manners + Grace under fire
 
 
 
Some people have the look, the hair and clothes etc but horrible manners...When I speak of manners, I'm talking politeness to others, smile for a stranger, help the needy, not afraid to get involved.
 
Grace under fire is just that:  No panic in bad situations and the ability to smile even as things are sinking...I find that a good sense of humour while fixing the DAMNED is usually the best way to solve a problem...Rather than rant and rave or whine.
 
 
 
 
 
I hope that all good people on GM look for those traits in their "Significant Other." If the person you're with doesn't have those traits 100% of the time then you're lying to yoursel. The relationship will end up in sadness and arguements mixed with broken hearts, broken promises and broken dreams.
 
 
 
Some reading this already know that the person they're with does NOT have it...Let them go before you get trapped...The assholish BF / Slutty GF will end up hurting and using you...You can't change a person's core and if you stay then sadly that's on you.
 
 
 
I know it might be exciting with the bad boy or the sex great with the bad girl but trust me it all comes with a price...At this point I could literally cut off 80% of my past women for the quality 20%...Don't be like me with scars to match my numbers play it smarter than an Old Noodles...Remember experience ain't all that it's cracked up to be...I would have given up plenty of raunchy nights in exchange for not having the drama that followed.
 
 
 
Somehow Karma/Fate/Lady Luck/God has seen it fit to give me things I don't deserve and I'll take them but I also recognize the fact I didn't deserve them...But it did take a minute to understand it.