Quoting mini_me:

So I just got out of a relationship with a guy after around 2 months. I saw all the redflags in this relationship. He started saying he loved me the first week. He was talking to alot of other girls on facebook. Well just yesterday someone hacked my facebook account and told the guy I was currently dating that it was over. So not even a day later I got online to discover this message that the hacker sent to my significant other. I messaged my boyfriend to tell him what had happened and his reply was "sorry but I am already dating someone else" I was in tears. I talked to his new girlfriend just to discover that the whole time he was dating me he was trying to get her to date him.(along with several other women) so I do not trust anyone at this point. I want to find a guy that can earn my trust.Please message me if you are this guy

So I just got out of a relationship with a guy after around 2 months. I saw all the redflags in this relationship. He started saying he loved me the first week. He was talking to alot of other girls on facebook. Well just yesterday someone hacked my facebook account and told the guy I was currently dating that it was over. So not even a day later I got online to discover this message that the hacker sent to my significant other. I messaged my boyfriend to tell him what had happened and his reply was "sorry but I am already dating someone else" I was in tears. I talked to his new girlfriend just to discover that the whole time he was dating me he was trying to get her to date him.(along with several other women) so I do not trust anyone at this point. I want to find a guy that can earn my trust.Please message me if you are this guy

Quoting BloodxRevenant:

At least it was only two months, rather than three years, so you hardly had time to really get attached. Besides, it is not like you lost anything when you two broke up, now is it? He sounds like a total manipulative piece of shxt to me. but the pain and eventual numbness of solitude can be far beyond maddening, now can't it?....fuck it, sometymes you really just need someone to listen, right?

At least it was only two months, rather than three years, so you hardly had time to really get attached. Besides, it is not like you lost anything when you two broke up, now is it? He sounds like a total manipulative piece of shxt to me. but the pain and eventual numbness of solitude can be far beyond maddening, now can't it?....fuck it, sometymes you really just need someone to listen, right?

Quoting evilangel1987:

I know exactly how you feel... there is nothing worse than being in a relationship by yourself. That was my case not too long ago. The guy still contacts me, tries being nice, tells me he loves me, but i jusg dont feel it anymore. The love we once shared has been replaced my this numb feeling that just wont go away... there again... i dont think i want it to.

I know exactly how you feel... there is nothing worse than being in a relationship by yourself. That was my case not too long ago. The guy still contacts me, tries being nice, tells me he loves me, but i jusg dont feel it anymore. The love we once shared has been replaced my this numb feeling that just wont go away... there again... i dont think i want it to.

The entirety of satisfaction i find in my life can be found on a single blade of grass... And behold, i find myself in a beautiful green pasture...

Quoting MOHAWK73:

I told you that last time.

I think it was just before I said " I'll call you"!

I told you that last time.

I think it was just before I said " I'll call you"!

Quoting bonnsterthemonster:

I agree. Plus, read the Four Man Plan before you start dating again. Set your boundaries. Have clear intentions.

I agree. Plus, read the Four Man Plan before you start dating again. Set your boundaries. Have clear intentions.

Quoting Bladewing:

amen Noods. I just wrote a new blog about just such the topic. What timing. Sorry to hear of it, Mini, but sounds like this dude was a jackass. If you are the type who is willing to commit to one person, by all means don't worry about being rid of a moron so quickly. Imagine what more may have happened if it lasted longer. More two tming backstabbing BS? Not worth it.
I'm a one woman guy and have yet to find anyone I can deal with or trust, and I'm Nood's age. Noods has tons of good advice people pass over. Look deep into the Noodle Bowl of Wisdom, breathe in its steamy goodness (is that boots I smells?), and with the Chopsticks of Patience you may learn much as you contemlpate.

amen Noods. I just wrote a new blog about just such the topic. What timing. Sorry to hear of it, Mini, but sounds like this dude was a jackass. If you are the type who is willing to commit to one person, by all means don't worry about being rid of a moron so quickly. Imagine what more may have happened if it lasted longer. More two tming backstabbing BS? Not worth it.
I'm a one woman guy and have yet to find anyone I can deal with or trust, and I'm Nood's age. Noods has tons of good advice people pass over. Look deep into the Noodle Bowl of Wisdom, breathe in its steamy goodness (is that boots I smells?), and with the Chopsticks of Patience you may learn much as you contemlpate.

~How the world spins upon this rusted nail~

Quoting hardtopickname:

Noodles speaks the truth here. Heed his words. You mentioned in your post up there that you saw all the red flags. Why didn't you at least question this early and at most, bail or keep him at a distance? Trust is earned, actions speak louder than words. Honesty, honestly? please don't get me started. The very last thing, I really mean this, is to post the words, "please message me if you are this (the honest) guy." Now of the dozens to hundreds of messages that you now have incoming, which one or two will be honest? How will you tell? Will you accept honesty lite or brutal honesty or some honesty with cream and sugar?

...aaaaand on the flip side of this a very special thank you goes out to all you guys out there that have already sabotaged the scene. Thank you, buddy-fkkrs, alot!

Shields up, girl or as we'd occasionally yell in the suck.. "incoming!!!" and in the mean time, ya, what Noodles said.

Noodles speaks the truth here. Heed his words. You mentioned in your post up there that you saw all the red flags. Why didn't you at least question this early and at most, bail or keep him at a distance? Trust is earned, actions speak louder than words. Honesty, honestly? please don't get me started. The very last thing, I really mean this, is to post the words, "please message me if you are this (the honest) guy." Now of the dozens to hundreds of messages that you now have incoming, which one or two will be honest? How will you tell? Will you accept honesty lite or brutal honesty or some honesty with cream and sugar?

...aaaaand on the flip side of this a very special thank you goes out to all you guys out there that have already sabotaged the scene. Thank you, buddy-fkkrs, alot!

Shields up, girl or as we'd occasionally yell in the suck.. "incoming!!!" and in the mean time, ya, what Noodles said.

Holy crap! We have blog signatures?!?

Quoting Noodles123:

Errrrrm stop looking for a guy...Learn to be by yourself or with just friends until you get over things otherwise all you'll attract is assholes and guys trying to use you.

Errrrrm stop looking for a guy...Learn to be by yourself or with just friends until you get over things otherwise all you'll attract is assholes and guys trying to use you.