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Quoting Bladewing:
Are there any women left who talk well of their guys? It is a rare thing to hear a woman who praises their guy these days. Mostly it's how the woman is so unhappy, how the guy isn't doing what she wants in some manner or area. Lots of it is petty. I know guys and was one who would go to any length for a woman. Not now. The classic 3 plus hour walk to find an ex who had two timed me to see if we could make another start again. Young and naive guys will do very dumb things. Spend the last bit of money they have to visit a girlfriend across town.
Not tell them that they did these things cause seeing them is the important thing, not the money. Spending time with the woman. difficult to verbalize what it is. I have my views on love, relationships and they seem at variance with modern women.
Everyone has been through the grinder at times, the staying with it through the storms are the ones who make it. It appears that now convenience and a short trem view is the norm. I WANT IT ALL NOW! and if it isn't given then the assumption is there will always be another. I've had women who dumped me and look me up later. Years later. Saying how nice I was or hoping for another shot or to seek me remembering the Nice Guy I was, the flower bringing, gift giving, happy to laugh and make them laugh guy they dumped for an asshole. Then they find the happy go lucky guy has become a bit bitter, not trusting, armored. I miss that guy I was. I miss being hopeful, trusting, open hearted guy. Cause that is important to be.
Especially with the significant other in life. If I ever find her, or she me, maybe we will last. these days I hope for the best but expect the worst. Women have taught me to do so. Sadly. Wish in one hand...
Are there any women left who talk well of their guys? It is a rare thing to hear a woman who praises their guy these days. Mostly it's how the woman is so unhappy, how the guy isn't doing what she wants in some manner or area. Lots of it is petty. I know guys and was one who would go to any length for a woman. Not now. The classic 3 plus hour walk to find an ex who had two timed me to see if we could make another start again. Young and naive guys will do very dumb things. Spend the last bit of money they have to visit a girlfriend across town.
Not tell them that they did these things cause seeing them is the important thing, not the money. Spending time with the woman. difficult to verbalize what it is. I have my views on love, relationships and they seem at variance with modern women.
Everyone has been through the grinder at times, the staying with it through the storms are the ones who make it. It appears that now convenience and a short trem view is the norm. I WANT IT ALL NOW! and if it isn't given then the assumption is there will always be another. I've had women who dumped me and look me up later. Years later. Saying how nice I was or hoping for another shot or to seek me remembering the Nice Guy I was, the flower bringing, gift giving, happy to laugh and make them laugh guy they dumped for an asshole. Then they find the happy go lucky guy has become a bit bitter, not trusting, armored. I miss that guy I was. I miss being hopeful, trusting, open hearted guy. Cause that is important to be.
Especially with the significant other in life. If I ever find her, or she me, maybe we will last. these days I hope for the best but expect the worst. Women have taught me to do so. Sadly. Wish in one hand...
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